We've covered meeting a person
online in a social setting, now we'll cover business meetings. In
light of the tragedy regarding Bobbie
Jo Stinnett, we felt some new guidelines are in order. To review our
"Meeting in Person" tips, Click
Here.
Bobbie Jo raised and sold rat terrier
dogs via her web site, and had people contact her at her home.
Tip 1. Get a cell phone.
Do not use your home telephone to conduct business. Cell phones are a reasonably
priced alternative, and are not traceable to an address.
Tip 2. Get a Post Office Box.
Do not use your home address on your web site, or give it to anyone. A
Post Office Box is a safe method of sending and receiving mail.
Tip 3. Do not go alone to a meeting.
If your business is similar to Bobbie Jo's, where presentation of a product
is necessary, make that meeting in a public place, and take a friend. Your
8 year old son may be a friend, but take an adult.
Tip 4. It may be possible to obtain
owners information corresponding to a license plate. Try and park
where the other party does not see your vehicle, if at all possible. Yet
your vehicle should be nearby, you wouldn't want to walk any distance.
Tip 5. Your IP number cannot be
used to trace you to your home. When you visit a web site, send an
email, post a message on a discussion forum, or chat via IRC, your IP number
is logged. Without an IP number, you will not be able to connect
to the Internet. Anyone can trace that number to your Internet Service
Provider, and in many cases, to the general area of your home town, but
not
to your home.
When a person is traced via IP, the
ISP will give out user information to a recognized law enforcement agency,
after a subpoena is issued requesting that information. ISP's do not share
your information with anyone outside of law enforcement. This does not
include the possibility of an ISP selling email lists, however, your account
information is secure.
For a more detailed explanation of IP
numbers, click here.
To see your IP number, click here.
Tip 6. Your safety depends on
your actions. Do not give out information such as home telephone
number, address, or other information that would lead a person to your
home. Even casually mentioning the church you attend is a clue that someone
may use to trace you.
Just remember, at anytime you feel uncomfortable
meeting in person, get out!
Never take a chance on your safety!